Writing a Profile He Can’t Resist

What do men like about you? How do you attract them? Is it your sexy smile, beautiful hair, or your eyes. Or maybe you are a great conversationalist, have great wit or satire, or are a warm and loving person. These are all great attributes to have when a man meets you in person. But what happens when all they see is a computer screen, a bunch of words and some pictures? How do you attract men online?

Read on to see how you can write a killer profile that he won’t be able to resist.

Everybody has been taught to make a great first impression. But now we have to rethink about what that means when trying to attract men online. No longer do we ask a man, ‘what is the first thing you notice when you meet someone?’. Now we may ask, ‘what is the first thing that catches your eye in an online profile?’ With thousands of profiles to choose from, it really pays to learn how to write a good profile.

1. The first step in putting together a great online profile begins with selecting the right photo. This is not about being beautiful, it’s about being the real you. Don’t choose something that is a retouched version of yourself, a perfect angle that doesn’t really look like you, or a picture from far away. Choose something that shows your real essence, a clear photo of your face where you are happy and smiling. This is the first thing a guy sees on the results page and an important aspect when you want to attract men online.
2. The second step in putting together a rich profile is knowing how to write. A good bio should be grammatically correct with no spelling errors and should flow well. Keep your bio relatively short and interesting. Hit on your best attributes, throw in some humor and make sure to include what you like to do most and what you desire in a man. There are certain subjects you should avoid, particularly money. Unless religion and politics play a huge part in your life, avoiding those subjects is best.
3. The third step is to be you. Your online profile is the best representation of you. Be sexy, be witty and be charming. Include little things about yourself that most people notice about you and comment on. If men often remark on your great smile, saying something like, ‘people tend to love my smile, so if you tell me something funny maybe you will get to see it’, would work well to tease and tantalize a man. To attract men online you need to create a vision for them. It has been said that men fall in love with their eyes, and women fall in love with their ears. So create the most lovely picture of yourself in their mind.

Use your online profile as if it had arms and legs and walked into a bar. What is the first thing a man would say about you!

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